12/15/21
When you say yes to others, make sure you are not saying no to yourself.
– Paulo Coelho
December 15, 2021
1021
12/14/21
There are four key roles parents play when raising a child – Laurie Beth Morales
- The Observer – No advice, feedback, or opinions are given here. Your job is to act as a sounding board and nothing more.
- The Consultant – Share your thoughts and perspectives w/out a stake in the outcome. The choice is theirs.
- The Negotiator – Here you need to make an appointment to discuss a deep dive topic. Otherwise, the timing might not be right. Keep it short and sweet.
- The Decision-Maker – There is no compromise here. My word is the final word. For matters of intervention and of a serious nature.
December 14, 2021
1090
12/12/21
The secret to any relationship is patience. How much are you willing to give and how long are you willing to give it?
– Dad
December 12, 2021
1036
12/6/21
“Happiness hygiene habits” 21 days, 2 minutes a day – Shawn Achor
- Look for three new things you’re grateful for and why.
- Think of one positive experience and journal three details of that meaningful experience.
- 15 minutes of fun mindful cardio a day or 3x a week is equal to taking an anti-depressant drug.
- Attention training and meditation for 2 minutes a day.
- Write out a 2-minute text or email thanking someone for the positive impact they’ve made in your life.
December 6, 2021
1123
12/3/21
We can approach the importance of compassion through intelligent reasoning. If I help another person then I myself will benefit from that. However, if I harm others, eventually I will be in trouble. If we wish to be truly selfish, then we should be wisely selfish rather than foolishly selfish. Our intelligence can help to adjust our attitude in this respect. If we use it well we can gain insights as to how we can fulfill our own self-interest by leading a compassionate way of life.
-The Dali Lama
December 3, 2021
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