May 26, 2026
5/19/26
The other day I told Oren we’re not in competition Bud, and that my only wish is for him to be more successful than me. His answer was “well, I’m competing with you”. Was I the same way with my Dad? In some ways, no, but in many ways yes. Strange that no matter how much you love your kid they still want to kick your ass.
May 19, 2026
5/6/26
When you fixate on winning, losing, or some other external outcome, it takes you out of the present moment. You become fragile. It’s impossible to enter a flow state. But when you adopt a mindset of curiosity and growth, it relieves pressure and helps you stay anchored. – Brad Stulberg
May 6, 2026
5/5/26
There is a very formative moment for many young people where, once you start to get into more serious rooms, you quickly realize just how human everyone is.
Many of the “accomplished elders” who seem put together and like they have it all figured out, are in reality, also still trying to figure it out. They know a lot, they have reps and experience, but things like insecurity and imposter syndrome tend to stick around.
Many older men aren’t used to being challenged in any way and as a result, can react poorly to it.
Many people put on a facade of having it figured out when they are just as unsure of the future as I am.
Many people struggle to show vulnerability or admit when they don’t know or feel backed into a corner.
These are human characteristics, and regardless of power, access, or experience, they seem to stick around. – Adam Mockler
May 5, 2026